September 22, 2019

better coverLiz Becker, Virginia, USA – has been married to Tom for 20 years and has 2 grown up sons of her own as well as 2 step children. Her youngest son Matt now aged 28 has severe to moderate autism.

As well as being a teacher, research scientist and clinical scientist Liz has also managed to find time to write her first book, ‘Autism and the World According to Matt’. The book is a collection of stories spanning Matt’s autism journey from child to adulthood.

Liz talks openly in her book of how she was told that Matt would need to be institutionalised.

‘In the doctor’s next breath he recommended institutionalizing my son, adding he would be too tough for me to raise and that didn’t understand how difficult ti would be on my family.’

Autism Daily Newscast was very interested to learn more about Matt and of how Liz has helped and enabled him to reach his full potential.

We told Liz that the stories within her book gave a wonderful insight into the world of autism. We asked Liz what gave her the idea to put all of her blogs spanning 25 years into a book.

Liz told us that she had actually wanted to write the book first and that the blogs were a way in which to get started. She wanted to keep the memories she had from vanishing. The whole idea had always been the book.

Liz said:

“I have wanted to write a book since the very beginning, when I knew the prognosis on my son was all wrong. I thought, “People need to know that all that robot- unable to think stuff is all wrong” and I started to document, save evaluations, drawings, homework, etc – all because I wanted to write the book.”

When reading the book Liz’s optimism and her ‘anything can be achieved in life’ outlook pour from every page. It is very much a life story of how autistic individuals can achieve and contribute to society if given the correct support and tools in which to do so.

It also seems that having a sense of humour helps.

What is also made evident is that Liz fought for what was best for Matt. We asked her if there was any doubt in her mind about what she was doing.

Liz frankly told us:

“I had my weak moments and days where I doubted myself and my ability to get him where he needed to be ,all those moments of “what if”, What if I wasn’t giving him enough? What if I was doing it wrong? Those days, thankfully, were few and far between as I really did believe in myself enough to know there was more to Matt than the doctors thought.”

Liz though knew her son better than anyone and she told us:

“I never doubted him. I never doubted Matt. It seemed quite clear to me that he wanted to learn – as much as he could, when I watched all those experiments with water and trajectories. In my heart I knew Matt could achieve all he wanted because he was open to learning.”

Matt over the years
‘He also loved trajectories and water was a great tool in manipulating trajectories…These were discoveries made from his own curiosity and I encouraged the experimentation.’

Liz explains that the hardest part was getting Matt to feel comfortable enough within himself so that he could accept he was different.

“His self-esteem needed to be through the roof to make him feel like he could do it – whatever “it” was. Even at 28 years old I am still helping him build and keep his self-esteem. Praise, praise and more praise.”

Liz goes on to explain about her son’s fragility in that it would not take much for him to lose it by hearing an angry voice or meeting a mean stranger.

“I think for my son, social interaction is avoided mostly because he is so very fragile.”

Part 2 of this article can be read here on Saturday.

Autism and the World According to Matt is available from the website and Amazon
You can follow Liz on twitter
You can read her blogs here

About the author 

Jo Worgan

Jo Worgan is a published author, writer and blogger. She has a degree in English Literature. She writes about life with her youngest son who is on the autistic spectrum. Jo tweets (@mummyworgan) and is also a freelance columnist for the Lancaster Guardian. ‘My Life with Tom, Living With Autism‘ is her second book and a culmination of her blog posts, and available on Kindle now, along with her first book, Life on the Spectrum. The Preschool years.

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