August 20, 2018

Sharisa Kochmeister (From MySpace)
Sharisa Kochmeister (From MySpace)

I asked Jan what happened that day?

“On March 11 th, 2015, while she was hospitalized for testing, Sharisa, who has Cyclicic Vomiting Syndrome, vomited in her bed.  I called the nurses and they came in, cleaned her a little, and left.  Sharisa was on her back with her mouth closed and looked like she still had vomit in her mouth, so, as per usual, I opened the side of her mouth with one finger and tried to clear it to prevent aspiration.  At that point, Sharisa knocked me hard so I tapped her hard on her knee to prevent further kicks and moved away from her reach.  This was all being videotaped (a tape I have yet to see) and hospital staff misinterpreted this as abuse.  

I was asked to stay out of her room, sat in a family waiting lounge all night long, and was escorted to a taxi with a voucher and sent home in the morning,  Subsequently, I was subjected to a criminal investigation and questioning, as was my quite innocent wife, and the investigator and City of Denver DA found there was no foundation for criminal charges.  

The Jefferson County Adult Protective Services then seized guardianship of Sharisa, claiming she was “incapacitated” and a VICTIM OF NEGLECT despite the fact she had always been her own guardian.  She was in the hospital for about 5 weeks, then in a nursing home for a month plus, and now has been placed in a “host home” about an hour away from us.  

I had no visits between March 11th and July 14th when she finally communicated with me via a Buddy Board that she wanted to come home.  They said her communication was “a real eye opener” but still didn’t schedule a visit until August 10th, claiming she needed time to adjust to the host home.  Again she communicated that she wishes to come home and they replied that “it’s a process” and “takes time” but they will now schedule weekly visits and consider “removing supervision”.

Jan is clearly upset and right now is in court proceedings. He had to check with his lawyer before even granting Autism Daily Newscast this interview. He wanted to convey this message to our readers:

“I had never previously spent even a month away from Sharisa.  It feels like a deep loss, has led to both physical and emotional distress for me, and my wife and I feel as if we’ve been unjustly criminalized.  Sharisa says it’s ludicrous, feels frustrated, misses her friends and family and wants her voice heard and rights acknowledged. There have been petitions and press releases and we patiently await a call for our next visit.”

Fellow autistic advocate, Amy Sequenzia, wrote a scathing article Sharisa Joy Kochmeister: Give Her Back the Right to Communcate, were she eloquently explained to anyone who wondered why Sharisa might choose not to communicate with anyone outside her family. Sequenzia also goes on to outline the violations of her human rights:

“Here is the bottom line: Social workers in Colorado decided that, because Sharisa “refused to communicate”, she has a low IQ. They decided that this low IQ indicates a lack of an elusive competence, that it indicates that a person is a lesser human being. They decided that she cannot understand her own feelings, that she cannot have complex thoughts and that she should not be heard in anything concerning her own life. They decided that Sharisa should not be allowed any contact with friends.

How many rights violations can you count in the previous paragraph?”

When asked what else he wanted to add, Jan stated:

  “This is totally wrong and unjust, violates ADA, Civil and human rights and needs to end NOW!”

Our hopes are with the Kochmeisters so that Sharsia may continue to give the much needed services to the community and provide vital education to the public.

About the author 

Emma Dalmayne

Emma Dalmayne has been diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome along with Synthanesia. She has six children on varying degrees of the most spectrum so easily. When she is not writing exposes as an autistic advocate, her days are spent doing sensory play, reading, outings, and taking them to therapies e.g. play therapy, music therapy, speech, and language.

  • my son Curtis was placed in an instution when he was 18…he is now 31…it took all of those years to get him out…..someone in this community decicded because he is non verbal and had behaviors that he needed to be locked up and that he was dumb and had no idea of what he wanted or even needed…… I finally got him back in our town…but they will not allow him to come home…he lives in what use to be called a group home……he cant even live in a host home….his option is the place he is in or an institution…..I feel as if he was stolen from me….and with out money for a good attorney I cannot get him back…..

    • Sabrina can you not get a private independent assessment of your son and take legal action? There must be charities out there that could help fund this if money is an issue.

  • This is just an absolute injustice. Nightmarish. I hope that Sharisa is allowed to return to her life soon.

  • I can think of only one reason to learn how to communicate verbally. To teach the “verbal” to use the other 93% of their communication skills. But, no they think there is something wrong with them because they are unable to use this 7%?! As long as one thinks there is something wrong with them they should not expect others to not agree with them.
    I for one am excited as more and more of these teachers come forward, I know they will prevail! They must start asking for the environment they need to be as they are and stop trying to fit in with what is not for them.

  • i cant believe another injustice to sharisa. omg. we think of you often and speak to many about sharisa and what she has been though in her life. i know you parents are watching over her. they always worried about her.. good luck with this latest issue with sharia\sa and may her life become a very happy one.. best regards alice and steve

  • Dear Mr. Kochmeister,

    I am outraged as Hell about what’s happened to Sharisa. Did they determine that she’s non-communicative and/or mentally incompetent by simply taking away her devices? I have written an article in my newsletter after interviewing her, and I may have some old transcripts from communications that we’ve had. There must be plenty of evidence of the work that she’s done. Let me know if I can provide you with any assistance.

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